How does a girl like a girl?
Many lesbians and bisexual women want to build a real and strong relationship with a girl, and this is really not easy to do. Even if you have found the right girl, she still needs to like, conquer her. How can a girl like a girl? We analyzed the opinions of lesbians from various forums and now we can give you some tips on this topic.
How a girl achieve a girlfriend: one night sex
If you want just sex with a girl and nothing more, then it will not be very difficult to achieve this. The best place to find a girl for one night is a nightclub. The main thing is to determine which girl is suitable for this. Lesbians and bisexuals you can determine for yourself, as most lesbian girls feel “theirs” quite well. It’s enough for such a girl to sit down at a table with some cocktail, have a relaxed conversation and a look to show your interest. If you like a lesbian, she will react to you, and you will spend the night together.
It is quite another thing when you want to achieve a naturalka girl. Here, or lucky or unlucky. There are girls of traditional orientation who are not out of curiosity to try sex with a lesbian, but there are hardened natural women who, even in a very drunk state, would never agree to have sex with a lesbian. If you got exactly this, do not despair - it was just an attempt, and you just do not fit each other. There are other girls!
How to behave with a naturalka? If you see that the girl is in a good, cheerful disposition and is sitting alone, you can casually sit next to you and have a neutral conversation, ask, for example, how the club and today's get-together, ask if she has been here for a long time. You can tell a legend about yourself, they say, here for the first time, without company, a little scary, I saw that the girl was sitting alone, decided to go talk. So, word for word, you can start a conversation about this and that, later transfer to a quieter place and continue to communicate. If you see that the girl is located to you and is interested, in the process of conversation you can gradually approach her, sit closer, take her shoulder or hand.If she did not push you away and did not move away, you can embrace her. If everything is going well, you can invite the girl to retire. If she pushes you away, do not insist, move away, say something like: “Sorry, I thought you like girls” and leave.
How does a girl achieve a girlfriend: a long relationship
There are cases when lesbians fought off girls from boys and other lesbians, so try to build a relationship with a girl you like, especially if she is free, you can still, but be careful. Here the main thing - do not rush.
If you fell in love with a lesbian, then there is no point in hiding your orientation from her. If you fell in love with a naturalka, then in no case at the beginning of your acquaintance do not tell her about your orientation. Firstly, it may scare her, and secondly, with this statement at the very beginning, you will make it clear that you want sex from a girl or a relationship, in not just friendly communication. Need to act differently. At first, you need to become a good friend for the girl. No matter how much you are in love, do not allow yourself anything extra. No gentle confessions, compliments that usually only men say to women and so on.should not be. As for body contact, the closest thing you can count on for now is strong friendly embraces when you meet and light kisses on the cheek - this is normal for very close friends.
So, first you need to become a girl friend. The first take the initiative in acquaintance, and you can get to know a good girl for long-term relationships in different places - a park, a shop, a cinema, a cafe, etc., but not a nightclub - they come mainly to relax and “come off” and not find your soul mate. So, when meeting, get a simple and relevant conversation, try to find something in common with you and your girlfriend to arouse interest. After chatting for a while, you can say something like this: “Listen, you're such an interesting girl, it's so much fun with you! Let's talk more often!”. If the girl agrees. You can exchange phone numbers, mail and contacts on social networks. Further, without imposing, offer reasons for meetings: "A new cinema has opened, shall we go see a movie there?"; "In the museum soon an interesting exhibition, let's go and see?"; "This weather is good, let's go for a walk?" etc. The main thing is not to propose excessively active, so that the girl does not feel obligated and does not think that you cannot even live without her.
In the process of communication, you need to earn her trust, to become not just a friend, but a real friend. Let her tell you about her emotions, feelings, feelings, you will help her to understand life situations, to give advice. Gradually, you will become the best friends. It should take a lot of time, you need to show how you love her (as a friend), how much you value your relationship. Then you can act on one of two options. Option one: you arrange the right situation or you catch the right moment and try to take her hand somehow in a special way, hug a little tighter and kiss her. It is also important to take the time and choose the right moment. Further act on the circumstances. Option two: find the right moment, call the girl in a quiet cozy place and sincerely admit your feelings. If you really have a good relationship, then even in case of refusal, you will still be able to remain good friends or, in extreme cases, acquaintances. Be sure to tell me that you understand everything and you will not insist if the girl rejects you. If a girl does not want a relationship with you, do not despair and continue to look for the one that suits you.
It’s not easy for a girl to be liked by a girl, and if it’s really worth it, you can try it anyway. Do not hurry, try to feel what and when you can, and what is better not worth while doing, and, of course, be tactful and understanding.