How to explain what sex is?
Curious baby is great! But when questions concern intimate topics, some parents do not know how and what to say. Let's think together how to explain what sex is to a very young child and a little older. Prepare carefully for this moment. It is better for a child to hear the truth about sex from you than a distorted explanation about it from outsiders.
What to say about sex baby
Your baby is from 3 to 5 years old and you do not know how to explain what sex is? At this age, do not go into details. Ask your child questions: "Do you think mom and dad love each other? Did you see how we hug, kiss? We sleep in the same bed, and then mom had a tummy. And you had a tummy. There you were safe and it's warm. And when you were born, it was a joyful and happy time. " Probably, such an explanation at this stage of development for your baby will be enough.
The child has grown up, is preparing to go to school, but you have not talked to him about sex? Plan this conversation,Do not wait for his questions, because at school he will know so much! And not the fact that this information will be true. Maybe your child already has a general idea of sex from movies, cartoons, from friends, from the pages of magazines. But the main thing they do not know is about love, about tender feelings that encourage parents to have sex in order to give birth to a baby.
Explain to older children
When changes in the physiology of your child occur, you will have to particularly focus on explaining what sex is. Tell them that his body is growing up, his outlook on life is changing. Now it's time to say that sex is an occupation of an adult mature person who can take responsibility for another person. Warmly mention the time of dates and courtship, pleasant days of living together. In the view of the child, sex should be an act of love between adults, which brings pleasure to children.
Well, in adolescents, in a lecture on sex, be sure to include a story about sexually transmitted diseases, abortions and their consequences. Describe the attitude of society to people who have promiscuous sex.Mention emotional distress, disappointment, remorse, and loss of self-esteem.
Yes, the topic of sex and moral standards is very popular.